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April 29, 2011
Vol. III, Issue 6

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Hi there,

I have been having a great time preparing for and marketing my new group program, Expand Your Mind, Expand Your M.oney.

First of all, I just love this title! This year is all about expansion for me, so the name really resonates with me. Plus I KNOW that your business expansion begins with your mental expansion.

Second, I'm really enjoying all the different phases of marketing I'm doing. Last year, I would have rushed through all this. This year, I'm reaching out to joint venture partners, I'm giving f.ree teleclasses in my community, and I'm going to run a Facebook ad. It's a lot of fun, with some unexpected bonuses along the way! That's one of the hallmarks of expansion – it always leads to MORE than you anticipated.

Third, I'm having fun creating the content. The material is all stuff I love. In addition, I am teaching myself as I create the content. I learn on a different level when I teach something, than when I am doing it. I'm also seeing the deeper, richer web of connections among all my topics.

Twelve women are going to have a fun-packed, brain-filling time with me starting on May 24th! If you are feeling divine discontent with your business,… if you know you're ready to make a change in 2011,… please join me on my next teleclass, when I share 6 Keys to Expand Your M.oney, Part II. Details are at http://www.marcystahl.com/teleclasses. I'll cover the 6 keys for expanding your m.oney and I'll share a bit about the group program. If you want to expand in 2011, whether that's with or without my help, you'll learn at least one new technique for that on this call.

Best wishes for your expansion,

Marcy Stahl
ezine@marcystahl.com
http://www.marcystahl.com

4/29/2011. The Direct Selling Women's Alliance national conference, Celebration, starts in Dallas, Texas. You can watch live video streaming all weekend, beginning today at 2:30 p.m. to 5:00 p.m CT with the following speakers. Catch the stream at http://www.cms.dswa.org/content/celebration-2011-live-streaming

Welcome and Keynote: Nicki Keohohou The Cloak of Confidence - See it, Wear it, & Share it

Leader Training: Suzan Hart on Access to Change - A new look at conflict

Leader Training: Connie Kittson on Developing Strong Leaders

5/10/2011. 6 Keys to Expand Your Money, Part 2. Register once for both calls in this f*ree two-part teleseries.

5/24/2011. Tired of inconsistent client flow and inconsistent income? Ready to stop worrying about money and start making money? That's the goal in my brand-new Expand Your Mind, Expand Your Money program group coaching program! Check out http://www.marcystahl.com/expand.html for all the topics we'll cover.

Testimonials and the Power of Social Proof

Interested in a F.REE, easy-to-create marketing technique? One that is highly effective WHENEVER your prospects see it?

This is a technique you see every day when you're online, when you're watching home shopping channels on TV, and when you're reading print ads. Every major marketer uses this to the maximum extent possible.

What is this amazingly effective, f.ree tool that all the big marketers use?

It's TESTIMONIALS.

At this point, you may be thinking: Yeah, yeah, testimonials are nice to have, but they're not really THAT important. WRONG!

Here's why testimonials are CRITICAL for your business. When your prospects are trying to figure out what to do, they look at what other people are doing. Testimonials show them what other people (meaning, your past clients/team members) have done and how satisfied those other people are.

Testimonials get their power from social proof. Robert Cialdini is a major academic researcher on social proof, describing it as "...one important means that people use to decide what to believe or how to act in a situation is to look at what other people are believing or doing there....[This] can be used to stimulate a person's compliance with a request by informing the person that many other individuals (the more, the better) are or have been complying with it." p. 139 Influence: Science and Practice, Robert B. Cialdini, 2009, Pearson Education.

Here are three important points about social proof:

  • It's strongest under uncertainty: when we're uncertain about what to do or the situation is ambiguous. Prospects are often uncertain – they want to use your product or service but they may simultaneously hesitate.
  • It's also strongest under similarity. We are more strongly influenced by people like us than by dissimilar strangers. So testimonials need to come from people “like us”.
  • We're really clueless about how strongly this affects our behavior. In fact, we genuinely believe we're unaffected by it!

When you shop for a book at Amazon.com, they show you a lot of information about other customers' buying choices. You'll see "Customers Who Bought This Item Also Bought", customer reviews and ratings of the book you're considering, book lists that include the book you're considering, and more.

I'm easily swayed by the section titled: "What Do Customers Ultimately Buy After Viewing This Item?" If more than 20% have bought some other book, I will ALWAYS check out that other book. Those other buyers must know something I don't!

On Amazon.com, we are relying on the behavior of complete strangers to guide what we do.

Your customers and prospects are just the same.

They are happy to rely on the behavior of others to determine whether they want to hire/work with/buy from you.

And you should be happy to give them that information, in the form of testimonials.

You can describe the wonders of what you do until you're blue in the face and some prospects will remain unconvinced. Or worse, they'll think that you are saying those things with a self-serving intention.

When those same cynics read the glowing testimonials from people like them, they're much more easily converted to believing it.

The closer the match between the prospect and the testimonial-giver, the more persuasive the effect.

Let's say a prospect is considering your product or service. First, they want information from other people who have in fact used your product or service. Second, they prefer information from someone who is like them. If your prospect is retired and doesn't use a computer very well, they'd rather see a testimonial from a retiree or technophobe than from a 20-something with a Blackberry.

When YOU are buying a car, whose opinion do you value more: the car salesperson or your neighbor who already owns the same model?

Remember, prospects want information and experiences from people who have been in their shoes.

And let me emphasize just how unconscious this is - often, people are not consciously thinking to themselves: "I'd really like to see a testimonial right here, from someone like me." Nor are they thinking "I'm easily swayed by testimonials." Just the opposite! We believe we're making an independent decision that just right for us. Nonetheless, research (and your Amazon.com experience) shows the opposite.

In another Cialdini book, he shares results from a study of towel reuse programs at hotels. In this study, researchers tried different messages to promote towel re-use. One message asked guests to help the hotel help the environment by re-using their towels. The other message told guests that most hotel guests had re-used their towels at least once during their stay.

Given one of these two messages, the guests who learned about what other guests did were 26% more likely than the first group to reuse their towels. And that reuse rate goes up to 33% when guests were told that people who stayed in their exact hotel room recycled towels!

I'm sure that, if asked, all of these guests would say that they are making up their own mind about whether to recycle. But the data seem pretty clear that knowing what other guests had done, especially those who stayed in the same room, influences their behavior.

What this means in your business

  1. ALWAYS provide prospects with information about what previous prospects-turned-clients have done.
  2. Include testimonials in just about everything your write or speak that is publicly available. Wherever prospects are exposed to your business, you need to have testimonials there.

CALL TO ACTION

To fully leverage the power of testimonials, the first step is to consistently collect them. Part of your system for working with each client should include asking them for a testimonial, at a specific point during your work together.

Next, you want to create the habit of including testimonials in ALL your marketing material. They should appear on your web pages and in anything you write. They can also show up on your business cards, on phone calls, and more.

Does your marketing need a bigger boost than just testimonials can provide? If you hate marketing or sales, and you're tired of not getting new customers, then contact me for a complimentary Success Session. My expert mentoring, faith in you, support and accountabilitymake a huge difference in my clients' lives.

Here's what a recent client has to say about their experience working with me.

"I have had my own business for almost 20 years and totally love it. In that whole time, I have always hated "marketing". To me, marketing was the word to describe all the things I didn't like about being in business. I tried to avoid thinking about it, but if I had to define it in my mind, it was "not very fun things I had to do to get people to do what I wanted them to do"

That was a formula for disaster. Whatever I said or wrote was filtered through "what would they want to hear". Or "what can I say that would make someone do ... whatever"

Marcy helped me see that marketing is really just being willing to be more me. I write and say whatever lights me up. The people who are touched by my authenticity are exactly the ones I want to be working with!"

Dr. Sue Ann Lewine
Z Life Center for Stress Reduction and Personal Growth
www.zlifecenter.com
Burke VA

© 2011 Marcy Stahl

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Marcy Stahl is an entrepreneur whose purpose in life is helping women entrepreneurs achieve world domination, by earning more money and creating more decision-making power. Because the world will only be a better place when more women are in charge!

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